Do not like others, is their own realm is not enough (in-depth good article)

Do not like others, is their own realm is not enough (in-depth good article)

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the Daojing says: "the good is like water, and the water is good and beneficial to all things without dispute. It is the evil of all people, so it is almost like the Tao."

Water is similar to Tao because it never condescends and treats people with prejudice.

the world in everyone's eyes is actually a projection of their own heart.

A person doesn't like others because he or she is not good enough.

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A wise man knows how to think of others

as the old saying goes: "each phase blames the sky and the earth is dark, and the sky is clear and the earth is clear."

when people get along with others, there will inevitably be differences. Instead of blindly blindly blaming each other, it is better to look at the problem from a different perspective, and perhaps the contradiction will be easily resolved.

everyone is an independent individual with different positions and different ideas.

what you seem to be a natural thing, you change places, but others don't necessarily agree with you.

Lian Po is a general of Zhao Guowu. He is not used to Lin Xiangru, who comes from a civil service background, and is in a dilemma everywhere.

once when I went out, I saw Lian Po coming and hurriedly drove the car away to avoid it.

everyone thinks that Lin Xiangru is afraid of Lianpo.

Lin Xiangru said: "discord will be detrimental to the country. Zhao can't afford to spend it. "

Lian Po was ashamed after hearing this, so he pleaded guilty to Jing, and the two became best friends.

Lin Xiangru knew that he had paid homage to him, which stung Lian Po's self-esteem.

people mistakenly think that Lin Xiangru is afraid of Lianpo, and Lianpo did not understand the painstaking efforts of Lin Xiangru at first.

the ancient poem said: "across the winding mountains, there are steep peaks on the side, but there are thousands of different ways in the past."

different positions, the same thing, but also has a completely different scenery.

if you see the leopard in the tube, you can't see the whole picture of the leopard; if a blind man touches an elephant, he can't find out the original shape of the elephant.

only really wise people know how to think of others and see things from the point of view of others.

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people know how to respect differences

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Life is very different. Different experiences and backgrounds make a completely different life.

receptive abilities vary widely, and opinions on everything in the world vary from person to person.

A man in green asked Zi Gong, "how many seasons are there in a year?"

Zi Gong said, "four seasons."

the man in green said, "No, there are only three seasons."

the two quarreled and went to Confucius to reason.

Confucius looked at the man in green and said, "there are only three seasons a year."

the man in green left triumphantly, but Zi Gong was puzzled.

Confucius said, "the man in green just now is a grasshopper, born in spring and dead in autumn, and there are only three seasons in his life. No matter how you explain it, he will not understand the truth of the four seasons. "

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Zhuangzi said, "well frogs cannot talk about the sea; summer worms cannot talk about ice; qu Shi cannot speak."

the frog in the well cannot understand the vastness of the sea, and the bugs in summer cannot understand the cold in winter.

it's not that he doesn't talk to fools, it's just that "Corporal smell Tao" will laugh.

some things are doomed to be forced, and some people are doomed to make no sense.

therefore, we should know how to let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude.

for those who cannot understand, silence is the greatest respect.

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the ancients said, "A true spiritual practitioner does not live in the world."

everyone is pleasing to the eye and everything is going well, which is not only a kind of wisdom, but also a kind of spiritual practice.

I don't like it. It has nothing to do with others. The problem is not to change other people's words and deeds, but to change my heart.

learn to be considerate of others, know how to respect differences, life will please climb another tall building!