There is only one kind of person worthy of deep acquaintance (profound)

There is only one kind of person worthy of deep acquaintance (profound)

Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.

as the old saying goes: many friends have many ways, and many enemies have many walls.

once upon a time, everyone wanted as many friends as possible.

it's just that the older you get, the more you find that the so-called friends all over the world is actually a kind of energy consumption.

most of the time, there is no need to invite too many people into life.

I am so messy that I am tired.

only by giving up low-quality social interaction can you have a high quality of life.

2021, only with those who are positive, positive, and really good to themselves.

because of them, they are the only people in the world worthy of deep acquaintance.

01

who you are with will determine the fate of your life

along the way, you will always meet one person after another.

some people are better than you and can take you all the way to unlock new skills;

some people are ordinary, but they are very warm with them;

some people are harmless on the surface, but nibble on your energy behind your back, making you depressed.

it can be seen that what kind of life you will have with the kind of person you are with.

as the saying goes: those who are close to ink are red, those who are close to ink are black.

everything everyone around you does will imperceptibly influence your destiny and lead you to a different path of life.

I remember reading such a short story.

A scholar came to Beijing to take the exam and lived in a shop.

the night before the exam, he had a dream that he was growing cabbages on the wall.

when he woke up, he told one of his colleagues about his dream.

but my partner was startled and shook his head and sighed: "I advise you to go home. This dream is unknown. I'm afraid you'll be unlucky in this exam."

the scholar was puzzled and only listened to his companion continue to explain: "think about it: isn't it a waste of effort to grow vegetables on the high wall?"

when the scholar heard this, he was discouraged and went back to the house to pack his bags and prepare to go home.

when I was about to leave, I met another companion. After hearing what happened to him, the companion laughed:

"I think you will succeed. Growing cabbages on the wall is a harbinger of high school."

upon hearing this, the scholar immediately came to life, so he took part in the exam with confidence, and as a result, he won a test.

this tells us that different people will have different effects on themselves.

positive, provide energy; negative, only disappoint.

Life has its ups and downs, and it is hard to avoid physical and mental exhaustion.

if you are still consumed by the people around you, your enthusiasm for life will be exhausted sooner or later.

only by choosing the right person, making the right friends, and being with positive people, can you talk and laugh all the way and have a good time.

02

Please stay away from people who consume you


you must have met such people in your life:

they are not satisfied with anyone or anything, either complaining about this or complaining about that.

they frown every day, as if nothing is going well.

as long as they seize the opportunity, they will keep you complaining and crying.

such people are often called "garbage people".

they are full of all kinds of emotional rubbish, frustration, anger, jealousy, hatred, and full of pride and prejudice, greed and dissatisfaction, not to mention other people's good, only know how to calculate and revenge.

just like the news that # Changsha female judge was stabbed to death on the hot search these days.

on January 12, Judge Zhou Chunmei was stabbed in an underground garage in the community, and the police showed no vital signs when they arrived.

the assailant was none other than Judge Zhou's own classmate and friend Xiang.

ask Zhou Chunmei because he has caused a lawsuit, hoping that for the sake of his former classmates, he can "say hello" and "go through the back door" for her.

who knew Judge Zhou was upright and refused this unreasonable request on the spot.

so, I resented someone, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. Finally, on the 12th, I stabbed the knife full of resentment at my former friend.

tragedy, it just happened.

apart from grief, it makes people reflect: for some people, it is better to stay away as soon as possible.

there are thousands of people in the world, but not everyone is worth interacting with.

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as the saying goes, "if you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will return to gaze." those who are negative and negative will be dragged into the abyss sooner or later if they cannot stay away as soon as possible.

only when you learn to stop loss in time can you have the ability to be reborn.

as the writer Liu Yu once said:

using time to really deserve people and things is the highest way for adults to live.

03

for the rest of my life, get close to people with positive energy

someone in Zhihu once asked, "how can I live this life?"

there is a high praise answer that I agree with most:

when you are alive, you must try to get close to those people, things and things that can make you better.

because of their kind souls and positive attitude, they can guide and inspire you through the thorns of life.

being with such a person is the best for the rest of your life.

I have heard such a fable.

there are two mantis chatting by the side of the road.

one of them said depressed: "people hate us and keep calling us pests."

the other mantis looked happy and said, "I don't think so, Ming."Ming, they are saying to us, hi! Worms! "

just a difference in thought, there are different lives and destinies.

this is true of mantis, and so is man.

complaining not only does not solve any problems, but also makes more and more problems and more and more stress.

only when you correct your mindset and stay away from those who consume yourself, can you get close to the light.

Kaifu Lee once said:

Life comes and goes, we will meet countless people, but only friends with positive energy are worth making friends for a lifetime.

if the heart is sunny, the years are safe.

May you and I meet people like the sun in 2021, who are secular but not secular, and join hands with them to hope!